So many great personalities had many things to say about this Ship called FRIENDSHIP.
But well did everyone had really the same thought on what they had written.Everything seems to be very good to be read and shared,but does it all have logic within itself.
Now consider the following quote:
"Sometimes you pick your friends, sometimes they pick you."(by Steve Klaka)Well said by Steve, but is it logically correct.What if Friend pick you and kick you the next moment.Have you thought about it.But it is true.Friends do pick you and kick you mid way.You can argue with me saying,in that case there never dwelled friendship between them.Cut the crap.We emotion coated fools will always have some or the other excuse for the discomforts we feel in the relationship.But deep within you,you realize nothing is right.And if nothing is right,then why don't you give a thought about it.I want you to think about this relation of friendship.Does it always give happiness or does the happiness given by it is life long.If you can guess that the happiness which you derive from it is just temporary,then why do you want to tie yourself into this fake knot.Well everything just cant be said fake.But when you know it isn't gonna be doing good for you in coming days,then what else can i call other than fake.(click READ_MORE to continue reading)
What Iam trying to conclude is a friend,unforgettable moments spent,promises of long lasting relation, what if all these are just a timely matter which has to disappear the next time you open your eyes.In short, what if your so called loving best friend kick you simply because they are a step ahead you or simply because they are fed up of the relation.Well,once again you cant just say it wasn't friendship at all which dwelled between the two souls,because a moment before this you considered the relation to be above all and your trust on it was all above,which means you know the person so closely that you can never expect such a shacking moment ever to come.
Pain is what you feel in that case, and if friendship is such a sacred relation between two souls or a group of souls,then what is this pain for??
I tried to answer this question with so many theories, but none matched to the so much of high standard thoughts about friendship.So my search for the answer is still on.But am just not all confident that i will ver get into some conclusion,because what ever answer i rest upon,a new question would surely arise which will contradict it.so my final question would be,Does the question "FRIENDSHIP: Ship Of Love or Hate?" has got any valid answer for itself?
If you have got any answer for it,why don't you share it with me by leaving a comment below.
THANK YOU
well said, but you cannot always say its a ship of hatred, choose friends carefully and then you will never have to regret
ReplyDeletehey well said....nice thoughts...the answer is not probalby there...just like life has its ups and downs, friendships also have similar ups and downs..its hw we cope with it is more important..A small wave can cause a small ship to drown..but it needs a lot bigger wave..same is it in friendship..if there exists a much closer and intimate bond then it gets much more tougher to break it... also on whether u can happy on friendship or not...i believe in one thing..to be successful in life, learn frm failures and to be happy learn to smile even in pain...easier said i knw..but it makes me feel much betr nw..even if i am in pain and if ma frend sees me and smiles..wat pain..tis is the power of smile..spread warmth..u will get similar warmth...and i have seen break ups too..it hurts but sometimes u jsut have to accept it..ITS A PART AND PARCEL OF LIFE...
ReplyDeletetoday we will believe.what about tomorrow. isn't the person same to you tomorrow.Just because some one said something about your friend,you start hating him,then what was between you n him all these days?why did it happen that you believed him until today and today you cant..is this a real friendship? if not then what is a real friendship??????
ReplyDeletewell if u treat him as ur friend then u have to believe in him or her na??? thats wat the base is..faith, belief etc..if u dont believe in ur frends who can u call them to be ur frends..i believe in my friends...but if they dont believe in me..then they close the door..i will wait for some time before i shut it too..but will open if he/she wants to come bac..but wont be trusting them too much then
ReplyDeleteactually v bcome frnz ven silence b/w two ppl is comfortable....but once i had a worst experience..dat too coz of a silly reason..m sure dats not my mistake..4m den onwards i make up my mind n found my bestest pal...now i do hv lotz of best pals around me...i can say onething attimes dis frnship will never end in hatred nor will remain forver....
ReplyDeletebut now i've found persons of my kind.n m sure dey'll b wid me forever..
sorry assslyyyyyy i think u can't get d perfect answer 4 ur question...coz itz a mixture of both
the question remain unanswered for years and i don't think anyone can perfectly arrive at some conclusion cos the confusion is what we all have in our thoughts about relations.
ReplyDeleteIf you can count your true friends on one hand throughout your lifetime, consider yourself lucky.
ReplyDeleteWe have many acquaintances, but true loyal friends are harder to come by, it is when we put to much stock in the acquaintances when we get burned.
Communication in the sea of friendship is a key element and without it, we run into hurdles. Do we approve of everything a so called best friend says, no, and if we tell them that up front and honestly, and they stick by us, that is a good gauge of friendship.
True to n extent ... but cant go wit it all the way.If u r so skeptical abt all relationships u make,ull end up alone... experince is d best teacher...4 me evrythg that happens 2 me is like a new learning experince.even friends.
ReplyDeleteTrue friends are hard to find.. sure.. but evrything seems to be true till the moment comes :) rite aslu ... So the more u learn from failures the more u r gonna succeed.Being positive is all that u can do, things come ur way because they hav to... may be for smething better
This is quite a question as u urself xplaind ...but.. not all ships sink!!!